Yesterday at the bar I was approached by a guy who wanted to buy me and my friend drinks. Now I’m not trying to say he was terrible because he approached me in a decent manner but it makes me sad that the first thing he asked when I said no thank you was if I had a boyfriend. Why can’t women just say no and men accept it without further questioning us? Why does the presence of another hypothetical male take higher credibility over my simple and initial no?
Drunk and sad, but what else is new.